Are you childless in your thirties? Let’s chat…

Photo credit: Bougie Black Blogger Scene: Hospital, my cousin had just given birth to her first child. Cousin to my mom: Sooo When is Cicely going to have a child? Mom to cousin: Cicely is out there living her dope ass life! (I added a word or two in there!) I remembered hearing this from my mom over ...

Vacation: Traveling Alone or With Your Family On A Budget

Summer is just right around the corner and there are lots of events happening outside of your state. If you live in NYC and you want to explore the other states. Then listen up on how you can travel on budget. Traveling is not just checking prices on the internet to see who has a better ...

How To Have Your Student Loan Work For You, Instead of Against You After College

So you graduated from college, went on your last vacation you will ever have, which your parents pay for everything and had a great graduation party (which racked up a few thousand in monetary gifts). Now you’ll be starting your first full-time job in less than a month.  Well first, let me say congratulations! You survived 4 (in some ...

Fashion Series: “A Dream that Became A Reality.”

"When I started they told me you don't know sh#t about fashion, I told them fashion don't know sh#t about me" ― Frantzyface In July, I attended a pop-shop at Askan a clothing boutique in Lower Manhattan. Designer, Frantz Farnolle dream started sometime in 2011, while working at a Starbucks, in the fashion district. Frantz never had an ...

Cosmopolitan Blog Awards

The Cosmopolitan Blog Awards are back again! I am going for "The Best Lifestyle Influencer"! Please nominate The Social Nubian www.TheSocialNubian.com. I am ready to slay the influencer community. Help me to accomplish that goal. Vote here ➡️➡️: http://bit.ly/2bQdmh6 before September 30, 2016 #TheSocialNubian, #LifestyleInfluencer, #CosmoBloAwards

Single? Need a Date? Try Uber and Lyft!

Have you ever been on a date; yet the other person didn’t know it was a date? I’ve recently come to the realization a sub-culture within a culture called ride sharing, i.e.: Uber and Lyft. The traditional days of online dating, getting set up by friends or random club hook up, is now out the window.  This note is ...

Lifestyle Regime To A Better Me + Life

With all the hustle and bustle in today’s world sometimes we as people tend to put our health on the back burner. This can include exercising regularly, eating right, taking vitamins, and other things that contribute to our bodies. For me as a former athlete after college and getting into the real world (i.e.: career, ...

Stop Settling for UnHealthy Relationships

Why do women sometimes settle for unhealthy relationships?  Many years ago I worked with a young lady whose boyfriend lived with a different woman.  The other woman had two children by him and my co-worker also had one child by this man and was expecting her second.  Messy situation, right?  I got confused every time ...