Are you childless in your thirties? Let’s chat…

Photo credit: Bougie Black Blogger Scene: Hospital, my cousin had just given birth to her first child. Cousin to my mom: Sooo When is Cicely going to have a child? Mom to cousin: Cicely is out there living her dope ass life! (I added a word or two in there!) I remembered hearing this from my mom over ...

Single? Need a Date? Try Uber and Lyft!

Have you ever been on a date; yet the other person didn’t know it was a date? I’ve recently come to the realization a sub-culture within a culture called ride sharing, i.e.: Uber and Lyft. The traditional days of online dating, getting set up by friends or random club hook up, is now out the window.  This note is ...

Stop Settling for UnHealthy Relationships

Why do women sometimes settle for unhealthy relationships?  Many years ago I worked with a young lady whose boyfriend lived with a different woman.  The other woman had two children by him and my co-worker also had one child by this man and was expecting her second.  Messy situation, right?  I got confused every time ...